Friendship … TYMTJ Day 6
We have completed half of our ten-day, focused prayer time for your man. I just want to encourage you to stay strong in your commitment. I am great at starting tasks, but stink at finishing strong. I do not want this to happen to me, nor you. Really commit to disciplining yourself over the next few days to finish strong in your prayer journey.
Friendship. A word my man knows so, so well. I am ashamed to admit, but I am not always gun hoe when Brad wants to spend time with friends. I have been known to feel that they are competing for my quality time. I rarely take the time to acknowledge how beneficial Brad’s quality friend-time can be, nor do I give thanks for the great friends that my husband has.
Maybe some of you are on the opposite end of the spectrum, you desire for your husband to develop more friendships. If so, spend today requesting this from the Lord.
If your husband has many friends or few, let us be thankful for all of the men in his life whom he can be ‘real’ around. Be thankful if he returns home refreshed and a better husband and father after being around his friends.
Our focus:
- Give him wisdom in choosing men worthy of honest friendship.
- Thank Jesus for the friends that he has been given.
- Be specific, thanks Jesus for each friend that comes to mind. Call them out by name.
- Ask that he would be vulnerable with his friends.
- Pray that the vulnerability would grow to true accountability.
- Develop him into an authentic, giving, approachable friend.
- Increase integrity in friendships, making him worthy of great friends, in return.
Maybe he should get a guys night soon, away from the stresses of a job, the demands of a family, the requests of a wife and the expectations of those he leads. Just a thought…
** About 18 months ago my friend, Ashley had a wonderful time of prayer on her blog. She graciously is reposting it here over the next couple of weeks. I loved praying through her posts a year and a half ago, and I’m excited to do it again. So, Ashley, thanks so much.
2 Responses to “Friendship … TYMTJ Day 6”
July 19th, 2010 at 4:46 pmBecause of the travel demands of my husband’s job and our new relocation to Singapore, I don’t know that I can remember my husband having a friend that would nurture him spiritually that he could be open and honest with. I think he feels that if he is going to spend the time nurturing a relationship when he’s home, it’s going to be with his family. I am going to start praying this for him on a regular basis because I know it is important for him to have this type of relationship in his life.
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GREAT area/topic to pray through! thanks 
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